My daughter, Abby, now has a ‘big-girl-bed’ in her room… but something tells me that she’s too scared to sleep in it.
When my husband set the bed up, he had the good foresight to keep her cot up as well… which was lucky, since she is happy to play on the big bed, or even read stories there, but when it comes to actually going to sleep there, it’s an issue.
And I have to wonder why. It’s a big change for a toddler, I understand that. But she was so excited for days before we got the bed in there, telling us all about the ‘bed’ she was getting. She even went to sleep in it for an hour after getting up about two dozen times. After that, she actually asked me to go back in her cot. Last night, it was a similar story, only she ended up just going back to her cot instead of even trying to fall asleep in the bed.
Children’s worlds are so small compared to adults. Everything in their universe revolves around them, and their imaginations. It’s quite amazing actually. But this bed? It’s a big jump for a little person to get comfortable with. She’s used to the surrounds of her cot, protectively enclosing her, and holding both her and her teddy bears in. Well… sort of in. She can actually climb quite happily out of the cot, which is exactly why I wanted to put her into a big bed. The last thing I want her doing is breaking her neck as she tries to climb over the side rail and fall off.
I always know that persistence is key when it comes to toddlers, and I guess we’ll just have to continue reading stories and trying to coax her to sleep until we get her more comfortable with the idea of staying in her big bed.
And here is a photo of her with one of the millions of hats we have in our house that she loves to play with. Ready for bed, in her PJs.
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she’s grown so much! such a cutie 🙂
Awww, I know, right? I have a biased opinion though… every parent thinks their child is the most gorgeous!
Too cute. We started my daughter on a mattress on the floor when we transitioned her out of her crib. Once she was comfortable with that, we put the mattress on the bed frame. I think it was the feeling of being without the surrounds and not wanting to fall off and get hurt. wishing you the best with this new thing.
Thanks Deb! Yes, big changes in the world as we know it are scary – let alone big changes in her safe haven of a bedroom. Poor wee poppet 🙂
You say that children think the universe revolves around them? True. How sad is it that the world is full of adults who think the universe revolves around them?
It’s so true! There are many many adults that I know who have never grown out of their world revolving solely around them. Amazes me every time!
When my son transitioned into a big bed, my husband had the bright idea of making a sleep “cave”, where we piled lots of blankets and stuffed animals around him so he felt like he was still in a small space. It helped him feel more comfortable. Good luck!